About Andrew
I have spent over 35 years helping couples and individuals make better relationships, written twenty-two books on the subject and published My Best Relationship Tools video course.
I lead a team of experienced therapists in the UK offering Online Counselling and face-to-face Counselling in London. I divide my time between London and Berlin, Germany – where I offer Couples Therapy in English.
I host The Meaningful Life podcast where I talk to leading therapists from around the world, bringing you the best help possible for improving your relationship and having a more fulfilled life.
I am the author of international best-seller I Love You But I’m Not in Love With You. A special Tenth Anniversary edition was published to celebrate over 100,000 copies sold. In total, I have written twenty-two titles on love, relationships and infidelity—which have been translated into over twenty different languages.
My next Men’s Retreat near Berlin focuses on Balancing Priorities: Being both the Barefoot Warrior and the Embodied Lover. Thursday 11th June to Saturday 13th June 2026, a three-day Men’s Retreat in the woods outside Berlin.
You will also find on this website many helpful Relationship Advice articles.
Latest Projects
What I'm working on
Best Relationship Tools
Andrew's new online video course gives couples four modules of easily-digestible, practical advice for the price of a regular hour of therapy with a face-to-face therapist.
Men's Retreat 2026
There are skills I can only teach within a group environment, not in the intimacy of the one-to-one session. Retreats for Men in the woods outside Berlin.
Counselling
Andrew currently offers Couples Therapy in Berlin, and in London where he leads a team of experienced therapists offering Online and face-to-face Counselling.
As an Author
Andrew has written twenty-two books including I Love You but I’m Not in Love with You and many more, all packed with practical advice on saving relationships.
My Counselling Journey
Couples counselling has always interested me. I trained with RELATE—the UK’s leading couple-counselling charity.
I have developed my own method to help couples turn around their relationship, which blends psycho-dynamic counselling (which looks at your past and how it affects today) with systemic counselling (which focuses on how your relationship works today and what would improve matters).
I have hand-picked a team of experienced relationship counsellors who have been working with me between six and twenty-five years.
We regularly meet to discuss cases and for regular professional development training.
My aim is combine the best therapists with the proven ideas from my books to provide the support your relationship deserves.
What they say
Andrew has guided us through some interesting topics that we would never have thought of ourselves.”
Andrew has an extensive toolbox of exercises and tools that we can practise safely in his space and bring with us home.”
Men’s Retreat June 2026 near Berlin
This time the theme is Balancing Priorities: Being both the Barefoot Warrior and the Embodied Lover
- Thursday 11th June to Saturday 13th June 2026
- Three-day Men’s Retreat in the woods outside Berlin
- Early Bird pricing until 11th May
In my three-day workshop, within a group of like-minded men, we will look at balancing two contradictory poles of masculinity: The Warrior and the Lover.
- How can you have the strength to stand up for yourself (and your family) yet at the same time be the empathetic and engaged lover (your partner longs for)?
- How can you both protect and nurture?
- Learn how to be both the Barefoot Warrior and the Embodied Lover.
There will be exercises to open up your voice for communal singing and we will unpack a myth together. Spaces are limited so reserve your place now to avoid disappointment. Early bird pricing is available until May 11th.
