About Andrew
I have spent over 35 years helping couples and individuals make better relationships, having written twenty-two books on the subject.
I lead a team of experienced therapists in the UK offering Online Counselling and face-to-face Counselling in London. I divide my time between London and Berlin, Germany – where I offer Couples Therapy in English.
I host The Meaningful Life podcast where I talk to leading therapists from around the world, bringing you the best help possible for improving your relationship and having a more fulfilled life.
I am the author of international best-seller I Love You But I’m Not in Love With You. A special Tenth Anniversary edition was published to celebrate over 100,000 copies sold. In total, I have written twenty-two titles on love, relationships and infidelity—which have been translated into over twenty different languages.
My next Men’s Retreat near Valencia, Spain focuses on Being Authentic: How to find and become your true self – a four-day retreat from Thursday 11th to Sunday 14th March 2027 amidst an orange grove near the beach in Spain.
You will also find on this website many helpful Relationship Advice articles.
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Men's Retreat 2027
Four-day retreat from 11th-14th March 2027 amidst an orange grove near the beach in Spain. The theme is Being Authentic: How to find and become your true self.
Counselling
Andrew currently offers Couples Therapy in Berlin, and in London where he leads a team of experienced therapists offering Online and face-to-face Counselling.
As an Author
Andrew has written twenty-two books including I Love You but I’m Not in Love with You and many more, all packed with practical advice on saving relationships.
My Counselling Journey
Couples counselling has always interested me. I trained with RELATE—the UK’s leading couple-counselling charity.
I have developed my own method to help couples turn around their relationship, which blends psycho-dynamic counselling (which looks at your past and how it affects today) with systemic counselling (which focuses on how your relationship works today and what would improve matters).
I have hand-picked a team of experienced relationship counsellors who have been working with me between six and twenty-five years.
We regularly meet to discuss cases and for regular professional development training.
My aim is combine the best therapists with the proven ideas from my books to provide the support your relationship deserves.
What they say
Andrew has guided us through some interesting topics that we would never have thought of ourselves.”
Andrew has an extensive toolbox of exercises and tools that we can practise safely in his space and bring with us home.”
Men’s Retreat March 2027 near Valencia
This time the theme is Being Authentic: How to find and become your true self.
- Thursday 11th to Sunday 14th March 2027
- Four-day Men’s Retreat amidst an orange grove near the beach in Spain
We have a deep fear of rejection and being judged. Add to that a biological need to belong, it all means that we learn from childhood to show-up as our parents, teachers and the world around us demands. Together, we will learn how to:
- Know yourself better – learn the difference between needs and wants – and how to communicate effectively.
- Discover the four functions – understand your dominant way of being in the world and why the change will come from somewhere else.
- Become better balanced – learn to be more open and aware of your feelings rather than always getting stuck in your head.
There will be exercises to open up your voice for communal singing and we will unpack a myth together. Spaces are limited so reserve your place now to avoid disappointment.
