About Andrew
I have spent over 35 years helping couples and individuals make better relationships, written twenty-two books on the subject and published My Best Relationship Tools video course.
I lead a team of experienced therapists in the UK offering Online Counselling and face-to-face Counselling in London. I divide my time between London and Berlin, Germany – where I offer Couples Therapy in English.
I host The Meaningful Life podcast where I talk to leading therapists from around the world, bringing you the best help possible for improving your relationship and having a more fulfilled life.
I am the author of international best-seller I Love You But I’m Not in Love With You. A special Tenth Anniversary edition was published to celebrate over 100,000 copies sold. In total, I have written twenty-two titles on love, relationships and infidelity—which have been translated into over twenty different languages.
New for 2025 is my Men’s Retreat near Berlin from Sunday 28th September to Wednesday 1st October. Step out of your daily stress, take stock of where your life is going, deepen your relationship with yourself and other men.
You will also find on this website many helpful Relationship Advice articles.
Latest Projects
What I'm working on
Best Relationship Tools
Andrew's new online video course gives couples four modules of easily-digestible, practical advice for the price of a regular hour of therapy with a face-to-face therapist.
Men's Retreat 2025
Step out of your daily stress, take stock of where your life is going and deepen your relationship with yourself and other men. Location is near Berlin, 28th Sept-1st Oct 2025.
Counselling
Andrew currently offers Couples Therapy in Berlin, and in London where he leads a team of experienced therapists offering Online and face-to-face Counselling.
As an Author
Andrew has written twenty-two books including I Love You but I’m Not in Love with You and many more, all packed with practical advice on saving relationships.
My Counselling Journey
Couples counselling has always interested me. I trained with RELATE—the UK’s leading couple-counselling charity.
I have developed my own method to help couples turn around their relationship, which blends psycho-dynamic counselling (which looks at your past and how it affects today) with systemic counselling (which focuses on how your relationship works today and what would improve matters).
I have hand-picked a team of experienced relationship counsellors who have been working with me between six and twenty-five years.
We regularly meet to discuss cases and for regular professional development training.
My aim is combine the best therapists with the proven ideas from my books to provide the support your relationship deserves.
What they say
Andrew has guided us through some interesting topics that we would never have thought of ourselves.”
Andrew has an extensive toolbox of exercises and tools that we can practise safely in his space and bring with us home.”
Men’s Retreat Berlin
Step out of your daily stress, take stock of where your life is going and deepen your relationship with yourself and other men. Location is near Berlin, 28th Sept-1st Oct 2025.
In my four-day workshop within a group of like-minded men, we can focus on:
- What it means to be a man today
- How we can support our sons to become balanced men
- The “father wound” and key male Jungian archetypes
- Why men find women’s anger difficult to navigate.
The retreat will culminate in a Vision Quest to tap into your inner wisdom – for a new direction and a complete reset. Spaces are limited and Early Bird pricing applies until Easter 2025.
