Ask Andrew – New Policy

For the past six years, I have been answering your questions about love and relationships.

Thanks to everybody who wrote in and I’ve probably answered about 1,000 emails! However, I’ve decided to have a rethink. Partly because the volume of questions means that I’ve been spending several hours a week (and hired a PA to deal with some of the correspondence) but mainly because I think another approach would be better for all my readers (rather than just the person who has written in).

So my future posts will be on topics (rather than commenting on someone’s individual circumstances). For example, “What to do if your partner claims someone is ‘just a friend’ but you suspect something more sinister” or ‘How to work on a relationship even if you’re not living together’. I’d be happy to hear your suggestions for future blogs.

If you’ve written to Ask Andrew before 19th February, I will still be posting those replies and answering your letters but I won’t be accepting any more personal case histories and individual circumstances. Once I’ve completed the backlog, I hope to have my first new style and more in-depth post on a topic sometime next week.