Simple tests to discover if your new man or woman is a keeper or whether your long-term relationship is worth saving.
In the movies, people just KNOW that their beloved is right for them or their partner does something horrible and they have a wake up moment and KNOW it’s time to leave.
Unfortunately, real life is more complicated and most people don’t have a sudden break though. Don’t worry if this sounds familiar, my book will help you step back, take stock and make the right decision.
Most people get stuck because they are like a judge trying to decide between right or wrong and stay or leave. However, I want you to be like a doctor and make a diagnosis: how viable is this relationship?
It is for someone deciding if their new relationship has what it takes to go all the way and established couples who worry the bad patch is something more serious. However, I don’t recommend it people who have read The Single Trap as it uses many of the exercises from that book.
“Unlike many relationship books, this is written by someone based in the UK. I really enjoyed the down to earth tone and felt the author was talking straight to me. Just reading it, I felt calmer and better able to think straight. There are also several exercises to get your thoughts on paper and out of your head. I now feel ready to talk to my partner and start to sort out our mess. Can’t recommend this too highly.”
Amazon Customer
You can heal your relationship! Get out of the negative cycle, start to address forbidden topics and fall back in love again. My Best Relationship Tools is a new video-based course to watch on your own or with your partner.
With over 35 years helping couples and individuals make better relationships, I am the author of the international best-seller I Love You But I’m Not In Love With You and host the podcast The Meaningful Life. I lead a team of experienced therapists in the UK offering Relationship Counselling and have published a video-based course called My Best Relationship Tools.
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As I cannot work with every couple who wants to see me, I have put my best techniques into a new video course. Understand why you are struggling to communicate – learn how to listen, build rapport and heal your relationship.