A Reader Writes… I have been married for 9 1/2 years. We’ve been together for 12. We met in college, both very young. I was his first girlfriend and he was the first boyfriend I had after my previous boyfriend was killed in a car accident. We fell in love quickly and married after more than two … [Read more...]
Infidelity
My Husband Sends Flirty Texts but Claims They Are Just Friends
Your husband is flirtatious and says there's no harm texting other women. How do you explain just how much you're hurting? A Reader Writes… My husband and I have been married for four years. I read How Can I Ever Trust You Again? but I'm not sure where my husbands affair type fits in. My husband … [Read more...]
How Do I Help My Husband Switch Off His Feelings for His Friend and Love Me Again?
A Reader Writes… I have been married for 17 years and have 2 young children. My husband and I had a wonderful marriage which I put down to the fact we are so different - I am positive, outgoing and fun - he is sensitive, kind and artistic - we always seemed to bring out the best in each … [Read more...]
How Long Will My Husband Still Have “Feelings” for His Affair Partner?
Why your husband thinking about the other woman is not a sign he really cares for her and not for you, but part of a natural grieving process. A Reader Writes… Four months ago, I discovered that my husband of 19 years had been having an affair for the past year. I was willing to 'forgive' and set … [Read more...]
Details Of My Husband’s Affair Keep Undermining Our Recovery
A Reader Writes… Thank you for "HCIETYA" and "Resolve Your Differences". Both books have helped us in this agonizing reconciliation journey. However, I am having problems with regaining respect for my wayward husband. He has done everything since discovery to heal his betrayal. We have read … [Read more...]
How to Get Wife to Fall Back in Love?
It takes two people to save a marriage but only one person to get the ball rolling and ultimately recruit their partner. Here's how to make a start. A Reader Writes… My wife said the phrase almost three weeks ago that she doesn't love me. Now she said this in our very first counselling session a … [Read more...]
