A Reader Writes… Seven years ago, when I was 8 months pregnant, I discovered my husband was cheating on me. I was suspicious because he was so uninterested in me, only barely interested in the pregnancy, and I put a tracking program on our computer. It took screen-shots of when he sent emails or … [Read more...]
Personal Development
I’m Having a Mid-life Crisis and I Don’t Love You Any More
A Reader Writes… After 8 years my girlfriend ended our relationship on a Friday morning with the words “I can’t do it any more”. She had often been distant in recent months but every time I confronted her about it she said she wasn’t happy about her lack of a social life and the fact that I hardly … [Read more...]
My Husband Has Had a Sexual Affair
A Reader Writes… A week before Christmas, I found out my husband of 25 years had been having a 3 month affair with a work colleague. I discovered his infidelity after hearing a message on my home answer phone - a conversation he and his lover were having that was inadvertently picked up by his … [Read more...]
My Husband Won’t Say He Loves Me After His Affair
A Reader Writes… I've been reading your book HCIETYA and I think my husband and I are stuck somewhere between Hope and Attempted Normality. He had a brief affair for three weeks (?) almost 10 months ago with someone he worked with - he says it was a mid-life crisis but was both angry and scared … [Read more...]
