A Reader Writes… I have read My Wife Doesn’t Love Me Anymore (despite it being my boyfriend that has fallen out of love) and I Love You but I’m Not in Love With You and I think I might be rushing through them and would like guidance on how long I should be waiting to implement the techniques you … [Read more...]
Will My Husband Get His Feelings of Love Back?
A Reader Writes… I am reading I Love You but I’m Not in Love With You. After 14yrs married and two small children my husband (just turned 40) came to me a year ago pretty much asking for a divorce and letting me (age 37) know he "loves me but ...". This all came as a great shock as we have built … [Read more...]
How Do I Approach Meeting up During a Temporary Separation?
A Reader Writes… My husband and I have agreed a six month trial separation, starting two weeks ago. He is the leaver and has moved out but we have both been unhappy with our relationship for the last 5 months or so. He was unsure what he wanted to do (divorce, run away) but welcomed my suggestion … [Read more...]
My Husband Wants a Trial Separation but Still Live in the Same House
A Reader Writes… We have been married for 7 years. Our main complaints in our relationship are that my husband wants to spend more time with his friends (he is an extrovert) while I want more quality time with him (I am an introvert). I had compromised by agreeing to spend time with him and his … [Read more...]
How Long Should I Wait for My Ex-boyfriend to Come to His Senses?
A Reader Writes… Thank you for your insightful books! I’ve read ILYB and HCIETYA. My ex-boyfriend (29 years) and I (26 years) have been together for more than four years and about 5 months ago he told me he had feelings for a colleague of his and decided to break up with me. I’ve never felt so … [Read more...]
How Do I Get My Wife To Fall Back In Love Again?
It takes two people to save a marriage but only one person to get the ball rolling and ultimately recruit their partner. Here's how to make a start. A Reader Writes… My wife said the phrase almost three weeks ago that she doesn't love me. Now she said this in our very first counselling session a … [Read more...]
