You love your wife but she has told you "I love you but I'm not in love with you" You want to respect her feelings but you crave closeness and if you're being honest - sex. So what do you? This post is about how to achieve lift-off and bring back physical intimacy: We've been married for 10 … [Read more...]
Have the Sex You Want – Frequently Asked Questions
How to have the sex you want. Why is there a need for this book? Although you’ve both changed over the years, you’re probably still having the same sex as when you first met. However, you are probably not going to the same restaurants, wearing the same clothes, and listening to the same music, … [Read more...]
Having Dark Frantic Sex after an Affair
A Reader Writes… In How Can I Ever Trust You Again you mention a couple who went through a dark frantic lovemaking stage. Our sex life wasn't great before the affair. We have had sex since I discovered my husband had an affair and notice it is different. I wrote in my journal that it was "very … [Read more...]
I Hate Myself After My Husband’s Affair
A Reader Writes… Seven years ago, when I was 8 months pregnant, I discovered my husband was cheating on me. I was suspicious because he was so uninterested in me, only barely interested in the pregnancy, and I put a tracking program on our computer. It took screen-shots of when he sent emails or … [Read more...]
My Husband Says He Never Felt That Spark Of Passion
A Reader Writes… About 3 months ago, my husband of eleven year told me that we was very unhappy and wanted passion. Over the last few years the sex had slowed down a lot. So I started doing everything I could to have as much sex as possible, surprise him in the shower, etc. He seemed very happy … [Read more...]
My Husband Gave His Lover Oral Sex but Wouldn’t Give It to Me
A Reader Writes… I am reading How Can I Ever Trust You Again? I recently found out that my husband of 10 years had an affair with a co -worker. The affair happened 3 years ago and continued for 5 months. My husband said it was not just physical and that he felt he loved her and had a connection. … [Read more...]
