Moving to Berlin has deepened my relationship but it has also thrown up all sorts of issues. I’ve met other couples – while out walking our dog – making similar adjustments from living abroad. So it’s got me thinking: How does being an ex-pat impact on your relationship? What’s it like … [Read more...]
Top Twelve Benefits of Journaling
One of the most powerful tools I use for helping my clients is keeping a journal. In fact, I ask nearly everybody to start a simple feelings journal to keep track of their emotions and what triggered them. Even if they keep it for only a couple of days, they get a profound insight. And it’s … [Read more...]
The Power of Dog
How a puppy helped heal a grieving heart On the eve of the millennium, my life looked great to outsiders. I had not one successful career but two. I worked as both a journalist – writing articles for the Daily Mail, Daily Express and The Times – and helping couples as a marital therapist. … [Read more...]
Can You Fall Back in Love?
Lots of people think that once one partner has fallen out of love that the relationship is over. What’s the point if the feelings have gone? But I not only believe that it is possible to fall back in love, I have lots of tips on how to make it into a reality. Andrew's Facebook Live Event - Can … [Read more...]
I Love You But I’m Not in Love With You
“I love you but I'm not in love with you” is one of the worst things that your partner can say but you can turn it into an opportunity to transform your relationship. I have thirty plus years working with couples where one partner has fallen in love and it’s not only possible to fall back in … [Read more...]
Help Me Be a Better Listener
What is the secret of why some marriages succeed and others end in divorce? The most reliable indicator of which couples will be happy, connected and in stay in love is how well they communicate. Of course, you need to be able to tell your partner how you’re feeling and be honest about problems … [Read more...]
My Wife Doesn’t Love Me Any More
It sounds like the worst thing you could ever hear but there is hope and a proven way to win her over—as long as you don’t panic and makes things worse. How to resolve “my wife doesn’t love me any more”. In this post, you’ll find three videos covering the worst and the best reactions to your wife … [Read more...]
Why Did I Cheat?
You’ve had an affair and you’ve confessed or been found out. You’re trying to save your marriage but you keep getting stuck on one question. It comes up over and over again: why? Your partner wants you to answer: why did I cheat? You could easily be asking yourself the same question because it … [Read more...]
My Husband Doesn’t Love Me Any More
It is really hard to be told by your husband “I don’t love you any more” and it is easy to panic—but that is going to make matters worse. You could even end up getting angry and pushing him further away. Don’t worry, I’ve got six ways to avoid panicking and videos that spell out the five worst … [Read more...]
Seven Ways to Cope With Painful Feelings
Life is hard. We want joy and happiness but we also have to cope with setbacks, rejection and pain. The problem is that we divide our feelings into two categories: positive and negative. We want the positive ones to hang around (like joy and pleasure) and get rid of the negative (in other words … [Read more...]
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