Your partner has found out about your affair or you've confessed and the full impact of your behaviour is starting to hit home. Your wife or your husband is traumatised: angry, constantly in tears and maybe even throwing up in the toilet. You want to offer comfort but you're the person who caused … [Read more...]
When to Give up Trying to save a Marriage
After discovering your partner's affair, it is perfectly natural to be torn in two. One half of you hopes that the marriage can be saved (and commits to working to find out what went wrong and trying to sort things out) and the other half wants to get the hell out of there. So how do you … [Read more...]
Why Do I Cheat?
Why do people cheat? It's a question that I get asked a lot and why I've decided to answer this letter… A Reader Writes… I want to thank you for your help you give to people. Ok, no "hinting around the bush" as yes I'm the people pleasing, conflict avoiding, passive-aggressive, nice guy, cheating … [Read more...]
Forgetting Details of Affairs – Does It Matter?
Why do unfaithful men and women keep forgetting details of affairs? If you're going to cheat on your wife or husband, you'd think you'd remember important details - like how often, where you went, what you did, what you said? However, time after time, unfaithful partners say 'I don't know' or come … [Read more...]
How to Stop Shame Feelings
Loneliness is partly because we are ashamed of admitting that we're all flawed, imperfect, wounded creatures. Socrates I bet you've clicked on this blog because you want to banish shame forever. Perhaps you're struggling with the fallout from an affair or you're single and feel ashamed about … [Read more...]
You Can Help Me If You’re in a Relationship Crisis!
I'm about to finish a book to help people dealing with a relationship crisis but I'm having trouble finding the right title. My guess is that if you're on this site, it is probably because you're in a relationship crisis. So which book would you be most likely to buy? You Can Change Your … [Read more...]
Six Signs You Need More Help Getting over an Affair
When you're in pain, you just want it to be over straight away However in the rush to feel better, it's easy to think that if you're still stuck that your relationship has been irreconcilably damaged rather than you've been REALLY hurt by infidelity. Six signs that you might need more help getting … [Read more...]
Ask Andrew – New Policy
For the past six years, I have been answering your questions about love and relationships. Thanks to everybody who wrote in and I've probably answered about 1,000 emails! However, I've decided to have a rethink. Partly because the volume of questions means that I've been spending several hours a … [Read more...]
Dreading Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day turns the spotlight on relationships and many people do not like what they find. So what should you do if you're dreading Valentine's Day? I have advice if you're single or in a relationship. Single and unhappy Instead of comfort eating or drinking, use the evening to take … [Read more...]
In Love With Two People at Once
A Reader Writes… My husband and I have been very happy in the last 13 years we've been together. We do all the right things - eat dinner together, have sex, talk, take care of each other, leave notes to each other, etc but recently I got a crush on another man. This man is much older than my … [Read more...]
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