Help & Advice

Six Signs You Need More Help Getting over an Affair

May 23, 2014 by Andrew G. Marshall

Six signs that you need more help and why you shouldn’t panic.

Ask Andrew – New Policy

February 19, 2014 by Andrew G. Marshall

For the past six years, I have been answering your questions about love and relationships.

Valentine’s Day turns the spotlight on relationships and many people do not like what they find. So what should you do if you’re dreading Valentine’s Day? I have advice if you’re single or in a relationship. Single and unhappy Instead of comfort eating or drinking, use the evening to take stock of your dating patterns. […]

In Love With Two People at Once

February 2, 2014 by Andrew G. Marshall

A Reader Writes… My husband and I have been very happy in the last 13 years we’ve been together. We do all the right things – eat dinner together, have sex, talk, take care of each other, leave notes to each other, etc but recently I got a crush on another man. This man is […]

How to Help a Depressed Man

January 25, 2014 by Andrew G. Marshall

A Reader Writes… I am 30 and my husband is 32, we have been married for 4 years and together for 12 years. We have always had a wonderful relationship, the odd argument and stress as all couples do but generally very in love, feeling close and safe together. About a year ago we decided […]

I Struggle With Images of My Husband Being Unfaithful

January 19, 2014 by Andrew G. Marshall

A Reader Writes… In October 2013, I discovered my husband had been having a two year affair with a work colleague (who was also a very good friend to me). I find it hard to put into words the feelings and devastation I felt and still feel. It physically hurts so much especially because during […]

My Husband Has Left Me

January 15, 2014 by Andrew G. Marshall

A Reader Writes… I have a huge problem and wondered if you could give me some advice. My husband of 16 years just left me 6 weeks ago. I’m sure he is going through some kind of crisis because he has become someone I don’t recognize any more. HE has said that he has been unhappy […]

Can I Ever Forgive an Affair?

April 28, 2015 by Andrew G. Marshall

You want to forgive your partner but he or she lied, cheated and betrayed you. No wonder you ask yourself, can I ever forgive an affair? So let me tell you a story about Eva Kor, 81, who is s survivor of Auschwitz and the medical experiments performed by Dr Mengele but at the trial […]

Is There Hope?

February 1, 2015 by Andrew G. Marshall

If your partner says I love you but, I’m not in love with you or I want a divorce, it’s not surprising that you’re full of panic or despair and asking is there hope?

Torn Between My Wife and Girlfriend

January 8, 2015 by Andrew G. Marshall

You love your wife and kids (but you’re not certain that you’re IN love) and you have a passionate connection with another woman. How do you make the right decision? Especially as someone is going to get hurt: your wife, your girlfriend and most probably yourself. I have thirty years experience helping men who arrive at […]