Relationship Advice

Practical advice on saving relationships - articles that draw on over 35 years of couples counselling and offer a way forward
There’s nothing worse than finding lovemaking is at the bottom of your partner’s list of priorities. It makes you feel undesirable, that your needs are not important and builds a wall between the two of you.
Arguing is extremely healthy in relationships, as long as you do it properly - by becoming good at rows your partnership can survive anything. Understand your fighting style and own up to your own bad arguing habits to transform your fights from negative to positive.
It looks alive and well but for one, or maybe both partners, something has died. Just like zombies in the movies, these marriages can stagger on forever but they are also incredibly vulnerable.
After having children it's easy to be overwhelmed with the serious business of bringing them up, running a house and paying the bills. However, you can still be lovers even when you're parents - here's two simple ideas (and five suggestions on how to put them into practice).
It’s hard to get over an affair, but what if your husband cheated and had a child? Moving on from infidelity is always painful and complicated, but if a child was born from the affair, there’s now a permanent reminder of your partner’s extreme betrayal of trust.
Why do unfaithful men and women keep forgetting details of affairs? If you’re going to cheat on your wife or husband, you’d think you’d remember important details – so why does this happen, and how to move on?
You would think that after an affair was discovered, your husband or wife would do everything to make amends, not be angry with you. This is all too common, so - how to deal with an angry and dismissive partner?
Are you struggling to communicate with your angry husband? Don’t worry, you’re not alone. Many couples face this challenge - read these valuable tips to improve communication.

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