My wife has discovered my affair or my husband has discovered my affair. Five next steps with advantages and disadvantages from a therapist with 30 years experience.
Forgetting Details of Affairs – Does It Matter?
Four reasons why unfaithful partners forget, four reasons why it matters and four reasons not to get too caught up in the problem.
In Love With Two People at Once
A Reader Writes… My husband and I have been very happy in the last 13 years we’ve been together. We do all the right things – eat dinner together, have sex, talk, take care of each other, leave notes to each other, etc but recently I got a crush on another man. This man is […]
I Struggle With Images of My Husband Being Unfaithful
A Reader Writes… In October 2013, I discovered my husband had been having a two year affair with a work colleague (who was also a very good friend to me). I find it hard to put into words the feelings and devastation I felt and still feel. It physically hurts so much especially because during […]
Seven Tips for Life after Cheating
When something as devastating as an affair happens, you want to get back on track as quickly as possible—but where do you start?
Can’t Get over Partner’s Affair
Five ways to move forward even though your heart is breaking.