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Home » I Love You but I'm not in Love with You

I Love You But I’m Not in Love With You

February 7, 2018 by Andrew G. Marshall

“I love you but I’m not in love with you” is one of the worst things that your partner can say but you can turn it into an opportunity to transform your relationship.

Filed Under: Falling out of Love Tagged With: I Love You but I'm not in Love with You, ILYB

My Husband Says I’m Controlling Him

April 9, 2013 by Andrew G. Marshall

A Reader Writes… I love him and I know for a fact that he loves me too. But I think my husband has anger and inferiority problems but he doesn’t want to admit and get help. He gets angry about anything, no matter how small it is. He yells and doesn’t talk respectfully. He doesn’t approve […]

Filed Under: Personal Development Tagged With: Anger, Help your partner say 'yes', Husband, I Love You but I'm not in Love with You

My Wife Says She Can’t Change Her Feelings

March 26, 2013 by Andrew G. Marshall

A Reader Writes… My wife and I have been together over 13 years and have just ‘celebrated’ our 9th wedding anniversary. My wife opened up a business in 2005, our 1st child was born in 2006 & second in 2009. She is strong willed with a wonderful, outgoing, positive, personality and these traits are really needed […]

Filed Under: Relationship Break-up Tagged With: I love you but, I Love You but I'm not in Love with You, Learn to love yourself enough, Make love like a prairie vole, My wife doesn't love me any more

I Can’t Say Anything to my Husband Without Him Getting Angry

February 25, 2013 by Andrew G. Marshall

A Reader Writes… My husband  left me two weeks ago after 18 months of marriage and five years together. He is a manual worker and I am a graduate professional. We are quite imbalanced intellectually too. For the first three years we were besotted. It was the fairy tale romance. Against all odds we were blissfully […]

Filed Under: Falling out of Love Tagged With: Anger, Husband, I Love You but I'm not in Love with You, Limerence

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Andrew G. MarshallAndrew G. Marshall is the UK's best-known marital therapist and has thirty years experience. His self-help books include the international best-seller I Love You But I’m Not In Love With You.

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