When infidelity turns your life upside down, self-help books provide the hope that there is some kind of roadmap back to safety. At least, that's the theory. But how do they work in practice? Please meet my guest blogger, Helen Tower of Sailing Through Infidelity, who has kindly offered to share … [Read more...]
My Affair Has Been Discovered
Your partner has found out about your affair or you've confessed and the full impact of your behaviour is starting to hit home. Your wife or your husband is traumatised: angry, constantly in tears and maybe even throwing up in the toilet. You want to offer comfort but you're the person who caused … [Read more...]
I Struggle With Images of My Husband Being Unfaithful
A Reader Writes… In October 2013, I discovered my husband had been having a two year affair with a work colleague (who was also a very good friend to me). I find it hard to put into words the feelings and devastation I felt and still feel. It physically hurts so much especially because during … [Read more...]
Can I Ever Forgive an Affair?
You want to forgive your partner but he or she lied, cheated and betrayed you. No wonder you ask yourself, can I ever forgive an affair? So let me tell you a story about Eva Kor, 81, who is s survivor of Auschwitz and the medical experiments performed by Dr Mengele but at the trial of Oskar … [Read more...]
Torn Between My Wife and Girlfriend
You love your wife and kids (but you're not certain that you're IN love) and you have a passionate connection with another woman. How do you make the right decision? Especially as someone is going to get hurt: your wife, your girlfriend and most probably yourself. I have thirty years … [Read more...]
Seven Tips for Life after Cheating
When something as devastating as an affair happens, you want to get back on track as quickly as possible—but where do you start? So you don't feel too overwhelmed, I've taken all the advice from my book on life after cheating and various articles and boiled everything down into my best … [Read more...]
