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Home » Mistress

My Husband Cannot Decide Between Me and His Mistress

December 3, 2016 by Andrew G. Marshall

Taking a step back and being assertive rather than domineering can help.

Filed Under: Infidelity, Photography by Chris James Dade Tagged With: Choose, Husband, Mistress

My Husband Will Not Stop Seeing His Mistress

November 3, 2013 by Andrew G. Marshall

A Reader Writes… I have read so many of your blogs and listen to your radio articles and a lot helps when I am in an anxious period but I think what I need to read next is your new book which is not yet ready. My husband and I are in crisis. The short […]

Filed Under: Infidelity, Relationship Break-up Tagged With: Affair, Husband, Mistress

My Husband Cannot Choose Between Me and His Mistress

October 18, 2013 by Andrew G. Marshall

A Reader Writes… 14 months ago, I found out my husband was having an affair. We have been married just short of 20 years. We have four beautiful daughters and travelling well or so I thought. From the day I discovered this affair, my husband has promised to end the affair, then left our home, […]

Filed Under: Infidelity Tagged With: Adultery, Affair, Husband, Mistress

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