

Become a leader who inspires rather than someone who manipulates or threatens.

Learn the difference between needs and wants - and how to communicate effectively.

Learn to be more open and aware of your feelings rather than always getting stuck in your head.
I am offering a men’s retreat over five days in the beautiful Brandenburg countryside – just outside Berlin, Germany.
Surrounded by majestic woods and secluded lakes, enjoying the sights and sounds of untouched nature – the perfect environment for introspection and self-discovery.
One of the reasons everyone feels lost and unsure is that we have become more isolated.
In particular, we are cut off from the wisdom and support of other men – mostly because we find it difficult to open up and be truly vulnerable with each other.
Do you try and accumulate as much information about what is happening around you to control or dominate? Or do you use it to deepen your appreciation in order to better respond? The first creates friction in your relationship – and the second brings wonder.
In this five-day workshop you will:
Every day will start with a choice of a movement class or a session discussing your dreams followed by delicious Ayurvedic breakfast and a morning and an afternoon workshop or ritual with a break for lunch.
After some free time for personal reflection and supper, we will continue working round an open air fire. There will be exercises to open up your voice for communal singing and we will unpack a myth together.
Afterwards, there is the option of a late night swim in the lake, a sauna and a hot tub in which you can relax.
I am a marital therapist based in Berlin with almost forty years helping couples and individuals make better relationships.
I am the author of twenty-plus self help books, translated into twenty languages including I Love You But I’m Not In Love With You and the host of the 2023 award-nominated podcast The Meaningful Life with Andrew G Marshall.
I decided to offer the retreat because many of my male clients long for better and deeper friendships with other men. There are skills I can only teach within a group environment, not in the intimacy of the one-to-one session. The group allows us to learn from each other – it is often easier to spot our own issues in other people. In addition, I have also benefited myself from the immersion of a retreat – away from everyday life – to recharge and go deeper.
Full pension, lodgings with en-suite bathroom and full active participation to all activities of the seminar (no passive or partial participation possible. Travel to the seminar location is not included.
We wish to support students who are training in psychotherapy, psychology, sociology and related disciplines to participate in the seminar at a reduced price in turn for helping with organisational tasks like setting up practice rooms, keep timings, etc.
Please note: you will be asked to help with a few small chores to make the retreat run smoothly: clearing tables, washing our plates, building fires etc.
Duration: 1:15 Hours (traffic permitting)
Start station: Westkreuz, Berlin Hauptbahnhof (Central Station) or Berlin Ostkreuz
Notice: You will need a BVG Ticket (Berlin Transport Society) that includes zones ABC (similar to the ticket you need from and to Schönefeld Airport)
Notice: You will need a BVG Ticket (Berlin Transport Society) that includes zones ABC (similar to the ticket you need from and to Schönefeld Airport)
To register your interest in the “Living with Integrity” Men’s Retreat June 2027 then please complete the form below.